Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Love and Respect for Women

LOVE THIS!

"I am a woman.

"I am your wife, your sweetheart, your mother, your daughter, your sister - your friend.

"I need your help!

"I was created to give the world Gentleness, Understanding, Serenity, Beauty, and Love.

"I am finding it increasingly difficult to fulfill my purpose.

""Many people in advertising, motion pictures, television, and radio have ignored my inward qualities and have repeatedly used me only as a sumbol of sex.

"This humiliates me; it destroys my dignity; it prevents me from being what you want me to be -an example of Beauty, Inspiration, and Love: love for my children, love for my husband, love of my God and country.

"I need your hlep to restore me to my true posiiton - and to allow me to fulfill the Purpose for which I was Created.

"Oh, man, I know that you will find the way."

Jill Jackson Miller of Beverly Hills, writer, written under the heading "Open Letter to Man."




Isn't this beautiful!  Wish every man on this planet could observe this, and support and encourage their women to strengthen and cherish these God given traits.  What respect there would be for women.  Thanks Jill for thoughtfully sharing this.

Marilyn

Monday, November 12, 2012

Attitude Can Make the Difference

"A smile is the light in your window that tells people you're at home"  (Anonymous)

"I don't think of all the misery but of the beauty that still remains"  (Anne Frank, The Diary of a Young Girl)

"Two men looked out from prison bars - one saw mud, the other saw stars." (From a poet long ago)

"Our attitude does not come from circumstance or personal history.  Attitude does not come from outside ourselves.  It comes from within". ( John C. Maxwell, The Difference Maker)

Pastor, professor, and author Chuck Swindoll says,

"Attitude, to me is more important than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.  It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill.  It will make or break a company... a church... a home.  The remarkable thing is we have a  choice every day regarding the attitude we embrace for that day.  We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people act in a certain way.  We cannot change the inevitable.  The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.... I am convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it.  And so it is with you.... (W)e are in charge of our attitudes.

From the Book, The Difference Maker, by John C. Maxwell, he shares these comments:

"I cannot always choose what happens to me, buy I can always choose what happens in me.  Your attitude is your greatest asset or liability.  It lifts you up or brings you down.  A positive mental attitude will not let you do everything.  But it can help you do anything better than you would if your attitude were negative".

I believe in every situation that happens in our lives, there is a possibility of a positive or negative outcome.  We get to choose the outcome, or what our focus is.  I believe as we choose to focus on the positive of each situation, we experience more joy, gratitude, spiritual strength and good health.  Negativity is a strong force here on this earth, sometimes it is a fight to get out of the chains of negativity.

I will pray daily for strength to see things in a positive way.  If you care to join me, it will bring much more quality and joy to your life.

Marilyn

Monday, November 5, 2012

God Works in the Most Incredible Ways - A Great Christmas Story

Just wanted to share a neat experience that I presently am a part of. And a request or consideration for Christmas giving.  It is a neat story, so be patient as I share the details.

Over a year ago, I had a random dream--just out of the blue, about my dentist and the workers at his office.  It seemed like we were in Germany or Ukraine, but there was a large facility, and a huge line of people waiting in line to get dental help.  I looked in on the dentists and their assistants, and they seemed to be very unorganized, and not much was getting done while these people waited.  I woke up wondering why I would dream something like this, so randomly.  I felt impressed that maybe I was supposed to help organized some humanitarian service or something.  I know nothing of dental work.  The dream was so impressive that I wrote it down, and forgot about it until my next dental appointment.

At my dental appointment, my dentist was talking of something that triggered the memory of this dream, so I shared it with him, and he said, "oh my, I take a trip to Guatemala each year to do a service mission for the people there, but we decided that we should do a service day for people around us as well, so this Saturday, we will do a service day, and you need to come help us.  It is totally unorganized."  I panicked and tried to get out of it, but he insisted.  So, I went and had a good time.

Shortly after the dental service day, I ended up doing a random boutique for Scentsy at a Trailer park, just west of of my town.  It was the most random boutique, but the most incredible feeling of friendship with some of the people there.  At this boutique I met the most darling gal, who I will call Tina, to protect her identity.  She was the one who placed the KSL add for the boutique.  She was so darling, but when she smiled, her teeth were pretty much rotted out in front.  It broke my heart, and I wished more than ever that I might be able to help fix her teeth.  Anyway, life moves on, and I kind of forgot about Tina, until I just went to my dental appointment a few weeks ago.

I walked into the dental office, and everyone is calling me by name, and how are you doing, and then someone informed me that they were planning their next service day.  And the dentist shared my dream with everyone in the office.  So, now I am somewhat of a dream celebrity, haha.  So, the dentist tells me that I need to participate again in their service day, and immediately I start thinking of Tina.  He tells me that they are having people nominate recipients of the free dental work on this day.  So, I told him about this Tina, and he said for sure, send them an email.

So, I go about trying to figure out how to get a hold of Tina who I barely know and have met a year ago.  I new she was friends with a gal that I did a 
Scentsy party for, so I tried calling her, and both of her phone numbers were disconnected.  I almost gave up, not knowing how to get a hold of her.  So, a few days later I was returning from a temple trip, and the dental office calls me and tells me the dentist has held a spot for my girl.  I panicked not knowing how to get a hold of her.  But when I went home, I went to a book that has a few  contacts in it , and there was a sticky note with her name that was written from the KSL add that she had placed for her boutique.  I was shocked to find her information.   I contacted her, and she was in such shock that I would remember her, and want to be part of such a service.  It was such an amazing feeling to make that call.

Today, I attended her dental appointment with her.  I held her hand through the trauma of getting shots, and having 4 broken and absessed teeth pulled out.  It was overwhelming, but an incredible experience for me to be with her.  The dentist diagnosed that they would focus mainly on her top teeth, as her bottom teeth are in pretty amazing condition considering what her top teeth look like.  ON her treatment plan, they have plans for  5 route canals with crowns, and a bridge for new teeth in the front.  The cost of this treatment comes to $6820, most of which will be paid to a lab for the bridge.  The dentist is able to contribute 50% of the cost of this dental work, and has invited Tina and her husband to work and try to contribute $1,000 so they feel ownership and a need to take care of her teeth.  He has invited me to talk with her Relief Society President, and others to fund raise to help her get her get this dental work done and to be able to smile again.  So, I have contacted the high school to see if she might be considered for a recipient of their Christmas fundraiser, and I will put this out to my family and extended family.  I know Christmas is such a financially tight time for most.  For years, I have wanted to have experiences that would help me feel the true meaning of Christmas, and right now I am overwhelmed with being given this opportunity to make a difference for someone in need.   So, if you are interested in contributing to Tina's dental restoration, please do so by sending me an email and I will let you know how this might be done.  I will be attending each of her appointments and encouraging her through this process.  Today was pretty overwhelming to her and frightening, but she was still so grateful to the point of shedding many tears.  What a neat experience.

Just a tiny background on Tina. She is 32 years old, mother of 2.  She is beautiful, but never smiles fully due to exposing her teeth.   She was raised in Arizona, sounds like not in the best of situations.  Financially, her parents couldn't afford dental work for her.  Eventually, she was placed in a foster home, and received a little dental work.  She married, and her husband works for the oil fields, and is a hunter.  She actually shot a buck last week.  Her husband's employment is slow throughout the winter, and at present is not working, due to the slow season in the oil fields.  The condition of her teeth is due to heavy soda pop drinking.  The dentist, said that Pepsi, Mountain Dew, some of those type of drinks have the same type of acid that meth has, and you often see the same results.  I will attach a photo of her teeth that was taken today.  It is so heartbreaking, and overwhelming. 


The reason I share this full story with you, is to share the randomness of this situation.  The timing of each event that has occurred in the past year.  It is so incredibly beyond my imagination as to how God, connects people in different situations to show that he cares about his children and loves them.  In the past few days I have felt overwhelmingly inspired that Tina has a great purpose on this earth, but she cannot achieve this purpose with out a beautiful smile.  I wish I could accurately convey the incredible feelings in my heart that have come through this experience.

Thanks for reading, and thanks for joining me in making a difference for Tina.

Marilyn